Meeting a wealthy and successful man is proving difficult, perhaps you aren’t looking in the right places. Do some research on your city. Try to find upscale restaurants and bars–places where the wealthy socialize. Many cigar bars are popular spots for wealthy men to mingle. What about country clubs? Most people who belong to affluent country clubs are very wealthy. Try calling the club to see about private tennis or golf lessons or requesting a tour. Tell yourself that you will do at least two specific things every week to facilitate your quest. And when opportunities present themselves, make things happen rather than just allowing them to unfold. Avoid being too glam. When you’re all dolled up, you may feel like a man magnet, but guys are often put off by too much product. Lots of makeup and tons of designer labels scream high-maintenance, and guys don’t like that. One other tip: Consider wearing something that could be a conversation-starter, like a t-shirt with something funny written on it or a faux-fur vest that a guy may ask to touch. Coffee shops are another great place to meet a man. It’s a relaxed public atmosphere, where you’re expected to sit by a window sipping coffee and maybe enjoy a few pages of your favorite book.


